THE WAY YOU CONVEY YOUR EMOTION
The second part of how to have an interesting conversation with a woman is the tone of your voice and the way you look when you speak.
In addition to verbal communication, your tone of voice, gestures, and facial expressions should be enriched. Listening is like listening to an interesting and memorable speech.
As we all know, most of your communication is nonverbal. That's why you should make sure you always express yourself when you speak.
It will make you more popular with the public and women will pay more attention to what you say. In fact, studies have found that people who gesture when they speak are perceived as warm, easygoing and energetic.
On the other hand, telling a story with a straight face will make a woman think you're boring and not funny enough. You don't feel the urge to know more about yourself.
So relax your facial expressions and make sure you use them to express your emotions as you speak. Facial expressions are very important in establishing correct linguistic intentions.
For example, you could say exactly the same thing, but you would interpret it in a completely different way depending on your facial expression.
This is important because if you want a woman to be interested in you, your words and expressions must be the same.
If your facial expressions, tone of voice and other nonverbal cues contradict each other, your words and the intentions behind them won't matter as much.
It also often confuses women who think you're weird or creepy. The huge contradiction between your language and your expression will seriously hinder your communication with women.
THE TONE OF YOUR VOICE
Next, let's talk about your tone. Tone refers to the amount of stress or force applied to a word and the pitch of the voice.
If your voice is flat and uninfected, your speaking style will be monotonous. This is very boring for most people. Besides, women will soon lose interest in what you have to say.
So be sure to change your tone and use it. Influence the important things you want to say and make your most important ideas stand out.
Also, especially with women, make sure you don't raise your tone or pitch at the end of the sentence. This is also known as "attunement seeking," where even if you're just stating something, you sound like you're asking a question.
This is considered very unattractive and women will not find interesting results in what you say. This will make you seem unsure of yourself because it sounds like you are always asking them something and seeking their approval.
Instead, speak in a neutral tone most of the time, adding "break rapport" tones only when appropriate. For the rest of the time, lower your tone and pitch as you finish your sentence.
This way, you sound more authoritative and authoritative.
People tend to listen to people with this tone and think about what they say is interesting and important. It's also a good technique to understand how to keep the conversation going.
Just don't overuse it or people will think you're an arrogant ass.
THE CONTENT OF YOUR WORDS
Finally, let's talk about what you actually say when you talk to women.
The general rule for making things interesting is to talk about what you and the woman you're talking to are really interested in. Just make sure you don't get caught up in small talk or turn the conversation into an interview.
Another big mistake men make when talking to women, aside from small talk, is to make the conversation sound like an interview. You're bombarding her with question after question. This is especially true of doctors, who like to ask patients all kinds of questions. For example, where are you from and do you like sports? Do you have any special interests? Remember, he's your date, not your patient. Don't let her think that dating an intelligent doctor is a particularly boring thing.
Instead, to make things interesting, you can ask questions that require complex answers to get a deeper understanding of what her personality is like.
Ask interesting questions to give her more time to think and avoid one-word answers. This will help you avoid small talk when you get to know her and make things interesting. Questions like these usually require detailed answers, and you can follow up later. Then you can move on to more and more interesting topics.